Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Friendship as it sounds

Time flies and the days go by. In a short period of time could happen alot of things. People just live as if theres nothing to worry about, and things will always be so far so good, in which it is the biggest perception of mankind deceiving themselves every moment every day. Human beings have been born with a selfish nature in heart, and friendship has been considered as a temporary kind of companionship or partnership that one would need when they are being alone. But it is were troubles, conflicts, misunderstandings, and much much more problems will happen. A single hand cannot make a clap unless it is accompanied by the other hand.

True friends are hard to find and even harder to keep. With increasing corruption and disloyalty, it is hard to find the right person to trust and accept as a friend. With so many people believing in gossips and cheap plots, betrayal of friendship has become very common. People are so self-absorbed these days that they don't care to see whether the friends they have are trustworthy individuals or not. Worse are those people who betray true friends because of materialistic pleasures, or personal interests and benefits. Coping up with friends cheating is quite hard, more so if you have no fault of yours, which has commonly happened. But, life goes on and you make new friends. You have to push away your hurtful past and learn a valuable lesson from it. When friends let you down and are not there for you when you need them the most, it is known as betrayal. Sometimes the reason why friends betray you is just not known. When you are at the receiving end, you feel hurt, confused and angry. You demand answers as to why have you been betrayed for absolutely no fault of yours.

Things will not always come your way and you have to accept facts and reality, theres no point of you being so bossy around and make yourself so stand-out among your gang of friends when you lacked the qualities a 'stand-out' person should always have. Not everyone have to comply to your standards if they should be your friends, you have to learn to accept different kinds of people without any thought of discrimination. Never leave out anyone who does'nt make themselves known to you in whatever you feel you like to do because everyone has their different interests and unique ways. Don't try to be kind to someone when you never meant to and in the end used that someone for your personal interests. Thats not a true friend should be. In the end, smart people who can value you will make you lose your selling point because you just seem to look like a fool. Professing yourself to be wise, in the end you became a fool, and yes it is, the greatest fool of all fools. Doing something without a second thought which never haunts you and you never felt the guilt will make you a worsen person in future because you'll hurt even more people and someday you will have to come to a halt with a cause. You always think you're right, you never learn, you never learn how to give way, you never learn how to accept, you never learn how to help and you're a good-for-nothing asshole.

This world always seems unfair in every aspect and so you have to live and enjoy the good ones. Selfishness and ungratefulness will forever be in someones heart till the day that person dies. A person who eyes for peace and happiness will never get it because that person has to be stretched in such a wide area untill theres nowhere that person could extend and in the end gets blame for the goodness the person carries inside.